How many friends do we even need?
Looks like, people are not close to many, yet they need someone to “hang out” with for the stories of Instagram. I am not sure if I am bothered about it or I too want it. I hate to hangout with the bunch of people that I don’t get along with or those whose company I don’t really enjoy.
Friendships really just stay till families have kids . At least these friendships where you “hang”. Once you are in the couple circle, or parents with kids circle – you going to have another group of people. sometimes, it’s your extended families only.
This makes me go into my secluded zone where really, I don’t want to waste my energy on friendships that are temporary. I got a bunch of people I like talking to, but they aren’t in my city. Well. What can you do. It is what it is.
Somehow, these days when you aren’t really hanging out, I don’t know if the pandemic has made me so comfortable inside the walls of my home, or if it’s my own mind. I am not sure if I don’t want to “party” every day just because other people are, or maybe I want to — maybe I am upset that I don’t have the circle. And oh, don’t I hate that.