It is hard to let go of a belief, isn’t it? The belief of knowing that you will end up with this one person. The belief that one day they’ll come back into your life and mend your heart. Even when you don’t realize that they haven’t been there when you wanted them to be.
Movies have always approved of the toxicity of relationships. When the long lost person returns to the woman’s life or if he keeps coming back time to time – he turns out to be the perfect one. The notion of “what is meant to be – will be”. This notion only makes you suffer, in the hope of return. You wait. You wait until, well, you cannot.
It is hard to let go of the theories you have built in your mind. Forcing some people into your lives, whereas only those shall stay who were never really slipping away in the first place. But still, somehow, it’s hard to let go when you know it is still the right thing to do.
Maybe however, it’s time to acknowledge that you have to let go of a phase, or of bitter memories. You have to stop hurting yourself. Sometimes in life you have to let go of trying to prove others wrong. If someone in your life has belittled you and you have taken it as a challenge – well, then good for you , but you have to let go of the hurt that it has caused. You don’t have to prove yourself to anyone, you only have to be you.
Faded Glitters 